Erica Lynn. lit a candle on 21st October, 2011:

It's been 3 really long years without you. And I miss you alot. I know everyone else does too. I miss running around aunt heathers with you and the girls and Dustin laughing and joking. I miss you sooooo much =[ I love you, Aunt BonBon.

Dana Porteous lit a candle on 20th October, 2011:

Miss you Bon! :(

Jessica Berentsen lit a candle on 20th October, 2011:

Three long years ago today we spent the last day of your life together <3 .I thank God everyday for having that last day with you! If I only knew that was going to be the last time I would ever see you I probably would have hugged you a longer before I left to go home that night.... or better yet I would have never let you go!! We were not always close through our school years but God united as adults & I am so grateful for that.You were always there for me no matter the circumstances day ,night,good,bad , ugly,laughing& crying!! I miss you so much my friend! I will NEVER forget your smile,laugh or those looks of wtf! I love you my friend!!Your Boy is beautiful Bonnie, he has your smile! Til we meet again!! Please give my dad a hug for me xxoo

Jessica Berentsen lit a candle on 3rd October, 2011:

Miss you so much...wish you were here, I so need you now xxoo

Dear Bon Bon. lit a candle on 28th February, 2011:

I really miss you! Just remeber i'll always remember you. I've been trying to be there for Dustin when others are not and it's quite tough, just know I love him and i'll do my best to answer all of his questions and help hm get though.

Jessica lit a candle on 25th December, 2010:

Merry Christmas in Heaven my Friend!! I love & miss you!! Until we meet again xxoo

Kathy Ruar lit a candle on 21st October, 2010:

Bon...I miss you so much!! I can't believe it has been 2 years!! I will never forget you!! You are always in my thoughts and prayers...I love you!!

Patti lit a candle on 23rd September, 2010:

Bonnie,

I think of you often and the times we spent together. Am-Jam, parties at the house, Halloween with Rob and Candy. I know we didn't get to see each other much but you were always in my heart. Miss You.

Guen Munsch lit a candle on 24th June, 2010:

Boonie you are so missed my friend, I think often love you my friend

A Friend lit a candle on 21st April, 2010:

I knew you when you were 10 years old, then what happens, I run into you years later in a bar, that was very strange for me, seeing how you had grown. You were taken so young, may you rest in peace....

John J.Clineman lit a candle on 5th March, 2010:

Although we smile and make no fuss, No one misses you more then us, And when old time we often recall, It's then we miss you most of all. ♥ HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIS WE LOVE YOU AN MISS YOU R.I.P. BONNIE

Heather LeVau lit a candle on 2nd March, 2010:

Another birthday coming with out you! I miss you so much not a day goes by that I don't think of you and wish you were here I miss your quick calls in between stops the pop in to see the babies because you needed Celeste hugs I love you

Jessica Berensten lit a candle on 20th October, 2009:

One year today, so hard to believe. You are truly missed by many.You touched so many lives. I love you & miss you girl!xoxo

Liz Vitale lit a candle on 20th October, 2009:

Just thinking of you, One year today we all got the bad news of you leaving us..But I know you are up there watching over all of us!! You were a awsome friend and will never be forgoten!! We all love you and miss you!!

Liz Vitale lit a candle on 8th October, 2009:

Wow I can't beleive its almost a year since your gone:(..I think of you offen and eveytime I do you still make me laugh!! We had some good times together!! I will never forget you or the way you lite up a room when you walked in!!! I love and miss you BON BON....

Brenda lit a candle on 26th September, 2009:

It's taken me almost a year to write something on here and its still hard to do. I miss you so much! Who would have thought I would have to go through the rest of my life without ever hearing your voice again or that you and I would not have our long Saturday talks or sharing a beer together, my list is endless. Most of all I say who would have thought that time would have gotten away from us and we would not have the chance to see each other again. Now I sit here listening to your son talking and wondering how do I help him fill the hole left in his heart because you are not there. How do I help him past this year's anniversary of your death? I want to celebrate the life you lived not the saddens left within because you are not here. I wish I tried harder to help you, I wish so many tired harder to help you because I would rather your son be able to hear your voice then trying to help him remember what it sounded like. It's a year and I am still shedding tears. I miss you so much Bon.

Kate lit a candle on 10th September, 2009:

Miss you lots Bon. They say it gets easier with time well, I don't know who 'they' are but it doesn't get easier. I can't believe that in a little more than a month you will have been missing from my life for a year...and what a year it has been. I think of you often and know you are near. I feel your presence and it gives me comfort.

Heather LeVau lit a candle on 17th May, 2009:

I miss you so much. Still waiting for this to get easier Bon Every month that passes feels like forever I love you

Jessica Berentsen lit a candle on 1st February, 2009:

Just thinking about & missing you!!!!

Eenika lit a candle on 26th November, 2008:

I pray Bonnie is at peace. We will miss her always and will smile everytime we hear her name, for the memories we've shared with her warm our hearts. May God bless you for eternity!

Leigh Heckman lit a candle on 27th October, 2008:

Bonnie I love you. I have loved you since the first day you came into my life and I will never again have a friend like you. You were the one I told all my secrets to because I knew they were always safe. You never let me down and you stood by me through some really rough times in my life. I will never forget you and I will think of you everyday....that is a promise. My heart is so sad. What I wouldn't give for just one more day with you. I will always love you and you will always be my favorite friend.

Brian Berentsen lit a candle on 25th October, 2008:

Bonnie,
I'm gonna miss ya.Thanks for all of the wonderful memories.Your smile will never be forgotten.I dont think I will find anyone quite like you to pick on.Love Ya,Brian

Jenn lit a candle on 24th October, 2008:

Bon Bon, I didn't get to know you as well as I hoped, but even though I didn't we still had fun times at Aunt Kate's. Her parties were legendary and all the more fun and funny when you two were together. Hearing the laughter coming from the both of you always made everyone laugh too. Many tears will be shed in honor of you Bonnie but the love will always be there. Thinking of your friends and family and knowing we will see you again eases a little of the sorrow.Your laugh and smile will live on. Rest in peace Bon Bon.. xoxo

Stephen Flickenschild lit a candle on 24th October, 2008:

I miss you and your smile already Bon. Tell Auntie Ebba, Pop-pop, and Uncle Knute that we miss them too and can't wait to see them again. When you meet MorMor, please tell her I said thank-you. Family reunions aren't the same without them. If there's such a place, give Shawn Doggy a pat on the head for us too!

Liz Weinberg lit a candle on 24th October, 2008:

Bonnie - you were one of my best friends growing up. You practically lived at my house in Holiday Mobile Trailer Park. We loved watching MTV & singing & dancing together. We used to walk from your house, down to the Thruway market, on the highway, just to see how many cars would honk at us (we thought we were SO cute!) Even after I joined the Air Force, we still kept in touch, called each other, & talked all the time. When I came home on leave, Bonnie, you would always come to see me. That meant a lot to me. We always acted SO silly & we never stopped laughing! That's what I'll remember most... the laughter & all the good times we had. I'm just so sad that I didn't get to see you in these recent years to give you one final hug. I love you, Bonnie. You were a true friend & I'll miss you dearly.

Helen lit a candle on 23rd October, 2008:

I light this candle for you Bon Bon to celebrate the life that you had here with us and to light the way for you to your next destination. Yes, we will see you again. You will be truly missed. Much Love. Godspeed my friend.

eva lit a candle on 23rd October, 2008:

bonnie its been so long.. but my memories are there..growing up with you and heather is a memory ill never forget you were such a cool person to hang out with and always made me laugh.i have to say you are in a much better place then this hell whole called life but sometimes our selfishness gets the best of us and would rather have you right here enjoying the hell whole with us..lol..rip my old friend i bet you already earned your angel wings by now.

Jessica Stanley lit a candle on 22nd October, 2008:

Bonnie this candle is lit for you from Mackenzie! She has always adored you and always will with all your memories together. She will never forget the 10 nailpolishes! Our hearts and prayers go out to your friends, family and loved ones. R.I.P. Bonnie! You will be loved and missed forever! xoxoxo

Uncle Jerry and Aunt Rose lit a candle on 22nd October, 2008:

There are many things in life that we cannot understand,
But we must trust God's judgement and be guided by His hand.
And all who have God's blessing can rest safely in His care,
For He promises safe passage on the wings of faith and prayer.

Kenny Doolittle lit a candle on 22nd October, 2008:

Bonnie:this candle lit for you represents the joy you have given me from watching you grow up from a child to a full grown mature woman.You will be sadly missed but always remembered as a great human being.You will always be in my thoughts.God is with you now and that comforts me.God bless you bonnie and your family.Kenny

Katester lit a candle on 22nd October, 2008:

I miss you,my life was better for you being in it and I will ALWAYS have you close in my heart. My fish is swimming solo...and she's lost without the better half of her.My best friend,my sister,I will laugh and always think of you,your smile, and the laughter we shared. And there was plenty of laughter. I LOVE YOU MY FRIEND See you on the other side.

Jenifer lit a candle on 20th October, 2011:

It's been 3 hard yrs but I know you always with me I still hear your advice & your hand on my shoulder. I love you sis always.

Heather LeVau lit a candle on 20th October, 2011:

I miss u so much and could use u here with me now our mom has cancer. Since you cant be here with me please go be with her and dad radiation starts today they need your strengh & love

Brenda lit a candle on 9th October, 2011:

In 11 days its going to be 3 years since you passed. I still miss you just as much and my heart aches for Dustin knowing you are not there to help him grow into the young man you wanted him to be. I say a prayer every night for him. Breakfast for dinner on the 20th.

Heather Le Vau lit a candle on 6th September, 2011:

First day of school tomorrow for Dustin in Mtown. I know you'll be there with him. Miss you so much, love you

branden lit a candle on 12th January, 2011:

hi. i didint have the priveleedge of meeting u. i would have like to meet you.. you seem like a great person. thxs for being such a great friend to my mom u know my dads wife.. i guess we owe u one too.. i know u remember david cause he remembers u.. always us david, branden robert and u know me lisa.. thxs bonnie 143

leigh,lisa,david lit a candle on 11th December, 2010:

still thinking of you. you cant get rid of us that easy. we love and miss you very,very,very much. nobody has ever known a better friend. thxs for lighting up our lives. we owe you one. c u soon enough. all the above

Jessica Berentsen lit a candle on 20th October, 2010:

Not much to say on this sad day...I miss & love you my friend.Until we meet again ..xxoo

Kate lit a candle on 29th August, 2010:

Thinking of you often...time goes by so fast. I see you wherever I go and in whatever I do. I smile and wish you were sharing these things with me. I feel your presence and am comforted by it!
Miss you Bon. (keep sending me those pennies from heaven I am collecting tee-hee)

david and lisa lit a candle on 9th May, 2010:

We love and miss you. Thanks for everything.

jim "moe"callahan lit a candle on 5th March, 2010:

i think about ya everyday its hard you not being here anymore but those long nites and im not getting any cars then all of a sudden poff there it is i know that your watching over n
me thank you i luv you and i miss you till we meet again

Heather, A;yssa, Celeste & Persephonie lit a candle on 5th March, 2010:

Happy Birthday! We love and miss you and will celebrate today sharing stories about you with with the girls

Dana Porteous lit a candle on 21st October, 2009:

1 year has come and will soon be gone, but Bonnie will alway's remain in my thoughts and memories. I miss ya Bon!

Heather LeVau lit a candle on 20th October, 2009:

This morning I was taking to the girls about you and I shed a few tears because I miss you so and I know that these stories will one day be all Persephonie and Celeste will know of you from I wish they/we could of had more time with you but I promise never to let the forget how much you loved them and how you would stop by when you felt down just for Celeste hugs because she always knew how to make her aunt Bonnie feel better

Jacqueline McDonough lit a candle on 20th October, 2009:

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S BEEN A YEAR.
eVERY TIME I HEAR WHITESNAKES " HERE i GO AGAIN" I THINK OF US IN DEBBIE AND KATHY'S CAR, CRUISING AROUND. YOU WERE MY THIRD SISTER AND I MISS YOU TERRIBLY. CONTINUE LOOKING OVER US AND PROTECTING US. YOU ARE NOW AN ANGEL FOR US. KEEP US SAFE. LOVE AND MISS YOU.

Dana Porteous lit a candle on 26th September, 2009:

Just thinking of you

JESSICA BERENTSEN lit a candle on 23rd September, 2009:

HEY, JUST ME THINKING ABOUT YOU! CAN NOT BELIEVE IT IS ALMOST A YEAR THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GONE. I SAW A PICTURE OF DUSTIN THE OTHER DAY, HE IS SO HANDSOME. HE HAS YOUR SMILE & THE BRIGHT SHINE IN HIS EYES REMINDS ME OF YOU. I MISS YOU MY FRIEND!!!

Dawn Flickenschild Stewart lit a candle on 10th September, 2009:

Thought of you today with a smile on my face. Never far from thought but today those thoughts were so strong. Love you and miss you Kid!!!

Jessica Berentsen lit a candle on 20th April, 2009:

Wow! you have been gone for six monthe today. I cannot believe how time has passed. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you & there have been quite a few times in these past six months that I really needed you to get me through (one of those days).... as well as wishing I could call ya & share the stupid little things that we all take for granted.I am missing you terribly. Love you always.xoxo

Kathy Exley lit a candle on 23rd December, 2008:

Was just thinking about you alot lately.

Diane Baker lit a candle on 2nd November, 2008:

I light this candle in honor of Bon-bon. My deepest sympathy goes out to her family and son, Dustin. May she watch our Myleigh grow up in heaven. May God bless this family.

Aunt Linda lit a candle on 26th October, 2008:

Hey Bonnie - we didn't know each other well but memories are fond and that's a good thing because those are the memories we take with us. Be at peace and know that your son Dustin will be taken care of. :-) See you some day on the other side.

Autumn Berentsen lit a candle on 25th October, 2008:

I am going to miss you so much Bonnie, You were like an Aunt to me. I will always have you in my heart.I will look out for Dustin & keep the girls in check, the way you would of. Thanks for always being a good friend to my mom.
I love you.

AnnMarie lit a candle on 24th October, 2008:

Hey Bon Bon, When my daughter called me, and said Bonnie past away. I said Bonnie who? I would have never thought that it was you she was speaking of. God does things in misterious ways. I will miss you greatly. Especially the laughter we shared at all of Kate's parties. Or just us girls getting together. My prayers go out to your family and loved ones. You will never be forgotten. Love AnnMarie

Kathy Exley lit a candle on 24th October, 2008:

I love you Bon ...Im so sad . Ill never forget all you did for me and all the fun we use to have together. Ill always keep you in my heart. I miss you more than you could ever know.

Steve lit a candle on 23rd October, 2008:

I am very sorry to hear of the loss we all share.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. You will never be forgotten.....

Chris lit a candle on 23rd October, 2008:

Words can't express my sadness right now. You have gone 'HOME' to early. But you are in a better place, and I know you are watching over us here. I know Dustin will be taken care of. I only wish we could have seen each other more or stayed in touch more since I moved to Florida. You are gone, but you will always be in my memories. GOD Bless you and we will see each other again someday. Love you cousin!!

Kort lit a candle on 23rd October, 2008:

Hey Bon Bon, I miss you more with each passing day. Thank you for always giving me advise and helping me weather i wanted to listen or not. I think back to all the memories and I see nothing but laughs and good times. It was your time, I dont understand why, but i know your with us in our hearts always. You were loved by many, including me. You always had a great heart. Always helpin others when they needed it. You helped me through alot and i appriciate it with everything ive got. Thanks for all that you've tought me. I love you so much, i hope that my nieces think im as kool as you one day. As much as i want you back here with us, i know your needed much more where you went. I know we'll meet again in time, till then i know you'll look over me and all your loved ones. Rest in peace, and dont forget to open those doors for me when its my time. I love you aunt Bonnie<3

Bobbieann Hassan lit a candle on 22nd October, 2008:

By lighting this memorial candle, it is my hope to bring prayers to the family and other loved ones left behind and try to give some comfort at this difficult time and to give light to a young and loving spirit on your journey to heaven. My prayers to all.

Cookie lit a candle on 22nd October, 2008:

Although God has called you home so early, you will forever be in my heart. I love you neice

Wendy lit a candle on 22nd October, 2008:

I will hold the memories of us together forever. We were so lucky to have you in our lives, Heaven just got even more Beautiful I love you Cousin always

Jessica Berentsen lit a candle on 22nd October, 2008:

I will miss you so much girl.I love you & will NEVER forget you.Thank you for being my friend & ALWAYS being there for me when I needed you!!!!I Love You!!!See you in Heaven!!XOXO